tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7738605882106786282024-02-07T21:07:59.959-08:00All About LoveThis blog is about LOVE, Share Love Stories, Happiness|Sadness of LOVE, Love Articles, Love Tips, Love Sharing, Love Finding, True Love,Love Experience, Doctor Love..All About LOVE!visalittleboyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16906526424565765159noreply@blogger.comBlogger51125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-773860588210678628.post-45573726801227511392012-12-22T02:52:00.002-08:002013-03-20T04:32:17.425-07:00All About Love: Love Music: Love Me by Justin Bieber<b>All About Love: Love Music: Love Me by Justin Bieber</b><br />
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This post, I would like to share with you a very sweet nice song with the title "Love Me"...is so sweet love song...it's very very popular song, currently it's reaching over 126 million views on Youtube..<br />
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Please enjoy the song "Love Me" below... <br />
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<b>Music video by Justin Bieber performing Love Me.</b><br />
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<b>Do you know Justin Bieber?</b><br />
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Justin Drew Bieber</b>, born March 1, 1994) is a Canadian singer-songwriter. Bieber was discovered in 2008 by American talent manager Scooter Braun, who came across Bieber's videos on YouTube and later became his manager. Braun arranged for him to meet with entertainer Usher Raymond in Atlanta, Georgia, and Bieber was signed to Raymond Braun Media Group (RBMG), and then to an Island Records recording contract offered by record executive L.A. Reid.<br />
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His debut extended play, the seven-track My World, was released in November 2009, and was certified platinum in the United States. He became the first artist to have seven songs from a debut record to chart on the Billboard Hot 100. Bieber's first full-length studio album My World 2.0, was released in March 2010. It debuted at or near number-one in several countries and was certified platinum in the United States. It was preceded by the worldwide top-ten single "Baby". He followed up the release of his debut album with his first headlining tour, the My World Tour, the remix albums My Worlds Acoustic and Never Say Never – The Remixes, and the 3D biopic-concert film Justin Bieber: Never Say Never. Bieber released his second studio album Under the Mistletoe in November 2011, when it debuted at number-one on the Billboard 200. Bieber released his third studio album Believe on June 19, 2012, and it became his fourth chart topper in the United States, debuting at number-one on the Billboard 200.<br />
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Bieber has received numerous awards, including both Artist of the Year Awards at the 2010 American Music Awards and the 2012 American Music Awards, and was nominated for Best New Artist and Best Pop Vocal Album at the 53rd Grammy Awards. With a global fan base, termed as "Beliebers", and over 30 million followers on Twitter, he was named by Forbes magazine in 2012 as the third-most powerful celebrity in the world. He had earned an estimated US$55 million in the previous 12 months. As of May 2012, Bieber has sold 15 million albums.visalittleboyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16906526424565765159noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-773860588210678628.post-61275867293074608162012-11-14T20:51:00.001-08:002012-11-14T20:51:53.711-08:00All About Love: Love Sharing: Love Experience: John Cena and Melina True Love <b>All About Love: Love Sharing: Love Experience: John Cena and Melina True Love </b><br />
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<b>Do you know John Cena?</b><br />
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<b>John Cena:</b> John Felix Anthony Cena (born April 23, 1977) is an American professional wrestler and actor of Croatian and Albanian ancestry. He is currently signed to WWE.<br />
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In WWE, Cena has won 19 championships in total, including 12 world titles (having won the WWE Championship a record 10 times and the World Heavyweight Championship twice). In addition, Cena has also won the WWE United States Championship three times, and is a four-time Tag Team Champion, having held the World Tag Team Championship twice (once each with Shawn Michaels and Batista), and the WWE Tag Team Championship twice (once each with David Otunga and The Miz). Cena also won the 2008 Royal Rumble match, the 2012 Money in the Bank contract for the WWE Title, and is a two-time Superstar of the Year Slammy Award winner (2009 and 2010). He is the longest-reigning WWE Champion of the 2000s, having held the title for 380 days from 2006-2007, and also has the fourth highest number of combined days as WWE Champion behind Bob Backlund, Hulk Hogan and Bruno Sammartino. Cena is the only man to fail to capture a world title upon cashing in a Money in the Bank contract.<br />
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Cena started his professional wrestling career in 2000, wrestling for Ultimate Pro Wrestling, where he held the UPW Heavyweight Championship. In 2001, Cena signed a contract with the World Wrestling Federation (WWF) and was sent to Ohio Valley Wrestling (OVW) where he held the OVW Heavyweight Championship and the OVW Southern Tag Team Championship (with Rico Constantino).<br />
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Outside of wrestling, Cena has released the rap album You Can't See Me, which debuted at No.15 on the US Billboard 200 chart, and starred in the feature films The Marine (2006), 12 Rounds (2009), and Legendary (2010). Cena has also made appearances on television shows including Manhunt, Deal or No Deal, MADtv, Saturday Night Live, Punk'd, and Psych. Cena was also a contestant on Fast Cars and Superstars: The Gillette Young Guns Celebrity Race, where he made it to the final round before being eliminated, placing third in the overall competition.<br />
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<b>Who is Melina?</b><br />
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<b>Melina:</b> Melina Perez (born March 9, 1979) is a Mexican-American professional wrestler. She is best known for her time with World Wrestling Entertainment under the ring name Melina. She is a former two-time WWE Divas Champion and a three-time WWE Women's Champion.<br />
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Perez joined the independent professional wrestling circuit in 2000 before signing with WWE in 2004. Initially, she was a manager for the tag team MNM. She managed them to three reigns as WWE Tag Team Champions, as well as Johnny Nitro to two reigns as WWE Intercontinental Champion. Perez made her WWE singles debut in 2005 and is a three-time WWE Women's Champion, winning the belt twice in 2007 and once in 2009. She also captured the WWE Divas Championship on two occasions in 2009 and 2010, making her a five-time champion overall. After winning her second WWE Divas Championship in 2010, Melina became the first woman in WWE history to record multiple reigns with both WWE Women's and WWE Divas titles. As a WWE Diva, Perez was noted for her trademark ring entrance which involved performing the splits on the wrestling ring's apron, and she was also noted for performing the splits during her trademark finishing maneuver. Perez has been cited by the WWE as having "perhaps the most impressive arsenal of offensive maneuvers in Diva history." She was released from her contract with WWE on August 5, 2011.<br />
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<b>Watch John Cena and Melina Love Videos below:</b><br />
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<b>Melina And John Cena love story:</b><br />
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<b>John Cena & Melina =True Love:</b><br />
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After watching the videos above, is it true about the true love between John Cena and Melina????visalittleboyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16906526424565765159noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-773860588210678628.post-72621729871895535902012-11-14T20:25:00.001-08:002012-11-14T20:25:42.390-08:00All About Love: Love Sharing: Love Experience: Kaye Brosas Talks About Her Past Love Experience and the Lesson She Learned from it <b>All About Love: Love Sharing: Love Experience: Kaye Brosas Talks About Her Past Love Experience and the Lesson She Learned from it</b><br />
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Maria Carmela Brosas (born July 15, 1975), sometimes credited as Kaye Brosas, is a Filipina actress, comedienne, singer and television host. She was a band member of Gladys and The Boxers and was lead singer when the group performed as K and The Boxers. In mid-2010, she became a co-host in the game show Pilipinas Win na Win.<br />
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In this post, I would like to share Kaye Brosas Talks About Her Past Love Experience and the Lesson She Learned from it.<br />
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Please enjoy the The video of "Kaye Brosas Talks About Her Past Love Experience and the Lesson She Learned from it" below... <br />
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PEP interviewed Kaye Brosas during the Unofficially Yours mini presscon. In this clip, the comedienne relates her past experiences with her ex and how it molded her into a stronger person.<br />
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<b>The Unconditional love</b> is known as affection without any limitations. This term is sometimes associated with other terms such as true altruism, complete love, or "mother's love." Each area of expertise has a certain way of describing unconditional love, but most will agree that it is that type of love which has no bounds and is unchanging. It is a concept comparable to true love, a term which is more frequently used to describe love between lovers. By contrast, unconditional love is frequently used to describe love between family members, comrades in arms and between others in highly committed relationships. An example of this is a parent's love for their child; no matter a test score, a life changing decision, an argument, or a strong belief, the amount of love that remains between this bond is seen as unchanging and unconditional.<br />
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In religion, unconditional love is thought to be part of The Four Loves; affection, friendship, romance, and unconditional. In ethology, or the study of animal behavior, unconditional love would refer to altruism which in turn refers to the behavior by individuals that increases the fitness of another while decreasing the fitness of the individual committing the act. In psychology, unconditional love would refer to a state of mind in which the individual has the goal of increasing the welfare of another, despite any evidence of benefit for them self. The term is also widely used in family and couples counseling manuals.<br />
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<b>What is The Four Loves?</b><br />
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The Four Loves is a book by C. S. Lewis which explores the nature of love from a Christian perspective through thought experiments.<br />
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The content of the examination is prefaced by Lewis' admission that he initially mistook St. John's words "God is Love" as a simple beginning point to address the topic. But further meditation revealed two different kinds of love: "need-love" (such as the love of a child for its mother) as distinguished from "gift-love" (epitomized by God's love for humanity). Lewis happened upon the insight that the natures of even these basic categorizations of love are more complicated than they seem at first.<br />
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As a result of this, he formulates the foundation of his topic by exploring the nature of pleasure, and then divides love into four categories ("the highest does not stand without the lowest"), based in part on the four Greek words for love: affection, friendship, eros, and charity. Lewis states that just as Lucifer—a former archangel—perverted himself by pride and fell into depravity, so too can love—commonly held to be the arch-emotion—become corrupt by presuming itself to be what it is not.<br />
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A fictional treatment of these loves is the main theme of Lewis's novel Till We Have Faces.<br />
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<b>Conditional love?</b><br />
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Some authors make a distinction between unconditional love and conditional love. In conditional love: love is 'earned' on the basis of conscious or unconscious conditions being met by the lover, whereas in unconditional love, love is 'given freely' to the loved one 'no matter what'. Loving first. Conditional love requires some kind of finite exchange, whereas unconditional love is seen as infinite and measureless. Unconditional love should not be mistaken with unconditional dedication: unconditional dedication refers to an act of the will irrespective of feelings (e.g. a person may consider they have a duty to stay with a person); unconditional love is an act of the feelings irrespective of will.<br />
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Unconditional love separates the individual from her or his behaviors. However, the individual may exhibit behaviors that are unacceptable in a particular situation. To begin with a simple example: one acquires a puppy. The puppy is cute, playful, and the owner's heart swells with love for this new family member. Then the puppy urinates on the floor. The owner does not stop loving the puppy, but needs to modify the behavior through training and education.<br />
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Humanistic psychologist Carl Rogers spoke of an unconditional positive regard. Rogers stated that the individual needed an environment that provided them with genuineness, authenticity, openness, self-disclosure, acceptance, empathy, and approval.<br />
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Also Abraham Maslow supported the unconditional perspective by saying that in order to grow, an individual had to have a positive perspective of themselves.<br />
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<b>Neurological basis</b><br />
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There has been some evidence to support a neural basis for unconditional love, showing that it stands apart from other types of love.<br />
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In a study conducted by Mario Beauregard and his colleagues, using an fMRI procedure, they studied the brain imaging of participants who were shown different sets of images either referring to "maternal love" (unconditional love) or "romantic love". Seven areas of the brain became active when these participants called to mind feelings of unconditional love. Three of these were similar to areas that became active when it came to romantic love. The other four active parts were different, showing certain brain regions associated with rewarding aspects, pleasurable (non sexual) feelings, and human maternal behaviors are activated during the unconditonal love portions of the experiment. Through the associations made between the different regions, results show that the feeling of love for someone without the need of being rewarded is different from the feeling of romantic love.<br />
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Along with the idea of "mother's love", which is associate with unconditional love, a study found patterns in the neuroendocrine system and motivation-affective neural system. Using the fMRI procedure, mother's watched a video of them playing with their children in a familiar environment, like home. The procedure found part of the amygdala and nucleus accumbens were responsive on levels of emotion and empathy. Emotion and empathy (compassion) are descriptives of love, therefore it supports the idea that the neural occurrences are evidence of unconditional love.<br />
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<b>Religious perspective</b><br />
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<b>Christianity</b><br />
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In Christianity, the term "unconditional love" would be more accurately expressed as Christ's forgiveness. It may also be used to indicate God's love for a person irrespective of that person's love for God. The term is not explicitly used in the Bible and advocates for God's conditional or unconditional love, using different passages or interpretations to support their point of view, are both encountered. It may be considered to be closely associated with another non-explicitly biblical, but commonly encountered saying: "God loves the sinner, but hates the sin".<br />
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While the phrase has never been used in its official teachings documents the then head of the Roman Catholic Church, Pope John Paul II was recorded as saying during a homily in San Francisco, in September 1987, that God "loves us all with an unconditional, everlasting love". He explored issues touching upon this theme in his work Dives in Misericordia (1980) in which the parable of the Prodigal Son becomes a framework for exploring the issue of God's mercy. The civil rights leader Martin Luther King Jr. was quoted as saying “I believe that unarmed truth and unconditional love will have the final word in reality”. <i>Source: Wikipedia</i><br />
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<b>Videos about Unconditional Love and Conditional love</b><br />
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In this post, I would like to share Bishop John Francis tells Living Wisely Show host Alegra Hassan, the secret to longevity in the ministry.<br />
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Bishop John Francis tells about his true love...<br />
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<b>Do you know Bishop John Francis?</b><br />
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Bishop John Francis is a Founder of Ruach City Church in the UK, Author, Preacher, Singer, Musician, Song-Writer, Husband, Father & A Worshipper after God's own heart.<br />
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Visit his Twitter account here...(<a href="https://twitter.com/BishopJFrancis" target="_blank">Bishop John Francis</a>)<br />
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Please enjoy the The video of "Bishop John Francis Talks About His True Love" below... <br />
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This post I would like to share with you a love story or love experience that my friend used to tell me. She told me her love story and she allowed me to post her story here.<br />
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Well, as we already knew, people in this world are living in different places, having different life story. Love is also a life story that people can not be avoided. Every people always meet love when they are in the age of romantic feeling of being in love. Below is my friend's love story... <br />
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She said she used to love someone who meant too much and too very special to her. She knew that her boyfriend loved her was giving her much hope and power. She told that when she meets him, she become a very strong power woman like she never had used to be. But then she discovered that every nice word her boyfriend told her, every nice sweet dream they shared and every step they had together, those all meant nothing to him when he let her down with someone else. It's true that she was hurt but it really was a good experience for her if she look to it positively and she still believe in love. As she believed that love has a power that can move a mountain but just pure true love. Everyday, she walks, she run, she sleeps, she never forget her moments with her boyfriend. She tries to forget everything in the past that hurt her, but she can not forget. What should she do? <br />
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Please help her by leaving comment below...<br />
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This post, I would like to share with you a very sweet nice song with the title "The Power of Love"...is so sweet love song...it's very very popular song, currently it's reaching over 8 million views on youtube..<br />
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Please enjoy the song "The Power of Love" below... <br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"><img border="0" height="227" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhF_XbEYhqxKXlbFZNeOXlRJOXIfcjhZ8vdQL73OGLnp4sULQYqeLqvakCU3SBjsjYFshjtFZWgw2n-3UNOsYR4Yg2g_rHxf_7IkILC6LEUQYZweKlvhh7s-EEQntdYR3mLXf9aYiCDPi4/s320/All-About-Love-Visa-Love-Blog-Logo.bmp" width="320" /></a> </div><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Visa-Love: All About Love</a></div>This post, I would like to share with you a very sweet nice song with the title "Where Is The Love?"...is so sweet love song...it's very very popular song, currently it's reaching over 58 million views on youtube..<br />
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Please enjoy the song "Where Is The Love?" below... <br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"><img border="0" height="227" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhF_XbEYhqxKXlbFZNeOXlRJOXIfcjhZ8vdQL73OGLnp4sULQYqeLqvakCU3SBjsjYFshjtFZWgw2n-3UNOsYR4Yg2g_rHxf_7IkILC6LEUQYZweKlvhh7s-EEQntdYR3mLXf9aYiCDPi4/s320/All-About-Love-Visa-Love-Blog-Logo.bmp" width="320" /></a> </div><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Visa-Love: All About Love</a></div>This post, I would like to share with you a very great video to watch. It takes you ten hours to see what the love is...<br />
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Check it out below...It's really sweet music, I love it!<br />
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Ladies, don't hurt me...What is love????? Lolzzzzzzzzz<br />
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<b>10 hours of "What is love"</b><br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"><img border="0" height="227" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhF_XbEYhqxKXlbFZNeOXlRJOXIfcjhZ8vdQL73OGLnp4sULQYqeLqvakCU3SBjsjYFshjtFZWgw2n-3UNOsYR4Yg2g_rHxf_7IkILC6LEUQYZweKlvhh7s-EEQntdYR3mLXf9aYiCDPi4/s320/All-About-Love-Visa-Love-Blog-Logo.bmp" width="320" /></a> </div><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Visa-Love: All About Love</a></div>This post, I would like to share with you a very sweet and attractive song with the title "Street Love"...is so sweet love song...<br />
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Let me introduce some about the song "Street Love":<br />
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<b>Street Love</b> is the second studio album by singer Lloyd, it was released on March 13, 2007 through Universal Motown, The Inc. Records, Sho'nuff Records and Young Goldie Music. The first single is "You" featuring Lil Wayne. The second single off the album is called "Get It Shawty" and the remix featured Yung Joc.<br />
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The album debuted on the U.S. Billboard 200 at number two, with about 144,672 copies sold in its first week. As of April 2007 the album was certified Gold by the RIAA with an excess of 500,000 copies sold.<br />
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Please enjoy the song "Street Love" below... <br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"><img border="0" height="227" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhF_XbEYhqxKXlbFZNeOXlRJOXIfcjhZ8vdQL73OGLnp4sULQYqeLqvakCU3SBjsjYFshjtFZWgw2n-3UNOsYR4Yg2g_rHxf_7IkILC6LEUQYZweKlvhh7s-EEQntdYR3mLXf9aYiCDPi4/s320/All-About-Love-Visa-Love-Blog-Logo.bmp" width="320" /></a> </div><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Visa-Love: All About Love</a></div>This post, I would like to share with you, the Top 20 Best Romantic Love Songs... Please enjoy below... <div style="float: center;"><iframe width="420" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/T4KS2JUrQCY" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe> <script type="text/javascript">
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<div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"><img border="0" height="227" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhF_XbEYhqxKXlbFZNeOXlRJOXIfcjhZ8vdQL73OGLnp4sULQYqeLqvakCU3SBjsjYFshjtFZWgw2n-3UNOsYR4Yg2g_rHxf_7IkILC6LEUQYZweKlvhh7s-EEQntdYR3mLXf9aYiCDPi4/s320/All-About-Love-Visa-Love-Blog-Logo.bmp" width="320" /></a> </div><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Visa-Love: All About Love</a></div><br />
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This post, I would like to share with you, The Art of Loving. The Art of Loving here, is a very popular famous book talking about love written by Erich Fromm.<br />
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The Art of Loving is a 1956 book by psychologist and social philosopher Erich Fromm, which was published as part of the "World Perspectives Series" edited by Ruth Nanda Anshen. In this work, Fromm recapitulated and complemented the theoretical principles of human nature found in Fromm's Escape from Freedom and Man for Himself – principles which were revisited in many of his other major works. <br />
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Fromm presents love as a skill that can be taught and developed. He rejects the idea of loving as something magical and mysterious that cannot be analyzed and explained, and is therefore skeptical about popular ideas such as "falling in love" or being helpless in the face of love. Because modern humans are alienated from each other and from nature, we seek refuge from our aloneness in romantic love and marriage (pp. 79–81). However, Fromm observes that real love "is not a sentiment which can be easily indulged in by anyone." It is only through developing one's total personality to the capacity of loving one's neighbor with "true humility, courage, faith and discipline" that one attains the capacity to experience real love. This should be considered a rare achievement (p. vii). Fromm defended these opinions also in interview with Mike Wallace when he states: "love today is a relatively rare phenomenon, that we have a great deal of sentimentality; we have a great deal of illusion about love, namely as a...as something one falls in. But the question is that one cannot fall in love, really; one has to be in love. And that means that loving becomes, and the ability to love, becomes one of the most important things in life." The Art of Loving argues that the active character of true love involves four basic elements: care, responsibility, respect, and knowledge (p. 24). Each of these is difficult to define and can differ markedly depending on the people involved and their circumstances. Seen in these terms, love is hard work, but it is also the most rewarding kind of work. One of the book's concepts is self-love. According to Fromm, loving oneself is quite different from arrogance, conceit or egocentrism. Loving oneself means caring about oneself, taking responsibility for oneself, respecting oneself, and knowing oneself (e.g. being realistic and honest about one's strengths and weaknesses). In order to be able to truly love another person, one needs first to love oneself in this way. Fromm is skeptical of exclusive love, which he calls égoïsme à deux – a relationship in which each person is entirely focused on the other, to the detriment of other people around them. In a healthy marriage, faithfulness applies to sex, but not to Fromm's concept of love, because love means a generally caring, responsible, respectful and honest attitude toward all other people. The book includes explorations of the theories of brotherly love, motherly and fatherly love, erotic love, self-love, and the love of God (pp. 7–76), and an examination into love's disintegration in contemporary Western culture (pp. 77–98). <span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-style: italic;">Other sites you may want to see:</span></span><br />
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WWE: <a href="http://visa-wwe.blogspot.com/">http://visa-wwe.blogspot.com/</a><br />
The Kingdom of Wonder:<a href="http://welcome2cambodia.blogspot.com/"> http://welcome2cambodia.blogspot.com/</a><br />
Daily Blogging: <a href="http://visablogging.blogspot.com/">http://visablogging.blogspot.com/</a><br />
Love Sharing: <a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/">http://visa-love.blogspot.com/</a><br />
NetworkSecurity: <a href="http://networksecuritynotes.blogspot.com/">http://networksecuritynotes.blogspot.com/</a><br />
About Insurance:<a href="http://visa-insurance.blogspot.com/">http://visa-insurance.blogspot.com</a><br />
All about Love: <a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/">http://visa-love.blogspot.com/</a><br />
Learning English Online: <a href="http://visa-elb.blogspot.com/">http://visa-elb.blogspot.com/</a><br />
Discovery Internet: <a href="http://visa-isp.blogspot.com/">http://visa-isp.blogspot.com/</a>visalittleboyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16906526424565765159noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-773860588210678628.post-7990572833192549992012-03-25T05:22:00.002-07:002012-04-21T03:25:16.111-07:00All About Love: The Biological basis of love<b>All About Love: The Biological basis of love</b><br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"><img border="0" height="227" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhF_XbEYhqxKXlbFZNeOXlRJOXIfcjhZ8vdQL73OGLnp4sULQYqeLqvakCU3SBjsjYFshjtFZWgw2n-3UNOsYR4Yg2g_rHxf_7IkILC6LEUQYZweKlvhh7s-EEQntdYR3mLXf9aYiCDPi4/s320/All-About-Love-Visa-Love-Blog-Logo.bmp" width="320" /></a> </div><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Visa-Love: All About Love</a></div><br />
The theory of a biological basis of love has been explored by such biological sciences as evolutionary psychology, evolutionary biology, anthropology and neuroscience. Specific chemical substances such as oxytocin are studied in the context of their roles in producing human experiences and behaviors that are associated with love.<br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhTviMXmNHHVsspuLEhYyYyMKwSvWQmEMPPw4dw8_3tr_4bBj4PF2j9LSqD39_uD2XOtV_yyBNzUjNhwXw1VUfQtsjz9pTIvbcO4jYlB1BFeoaaQ3xWxIcOAhfEGIYNz0z_Ly67JIMXVbI/s1600/220px-Chemical_basis_of_love.png" /></a> </div><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/"><b>The Overview of the chemical basis of love</b></a></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br />
</div>Evolutionary psychology has proposed several explanations for love. Human infants and children are for a very long time dependent on parental help. Love has therefore been seen as mechanism to promote mutual parental support of children for an extended time period. Another is that sexually transmitted diseases may cause, among other effects, permanently reduced fertility, injury to the fetus, and increase risks during childbirth. This would favor exclusive long-term relationships reducing the risk of contracting a STD.<br />
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From the perspective of evolutionary psychology the experiences and behaviors associated with love can be investigated in terms of how they have been shaped by human evolution. For example, it has been suggested that human language has been selected during evolution as a type of "mating signal" that allows potential mates to judge reproductive fitness. Miller described evolutionary psychology as a starting place for further research: "Cognitive neuroscience could try to localize courtship adaptations in the brain. Most importantly, we need much better observations concerning real-life human courtship, including the measurable aspects of courtship that influence mate choice, the reproductive (or at least sexual) consequences of individual variation in those aspects, and the social-cognitive and emotional mechanisms of falling in love." Since Darwin's time there have been similar speculations about the evolution of human interest in music also as a potential signaling system for attracting and judging the fitness of potential mates. It has been suggested that the human capacity to experience love has been evolved as a signal to potential mates that the partner will be a good parent and be likely to help pass genes to future generations.<br />
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Studies in neuroscience have involved chemicals that are present in the brain and might be involved when people experience love. These chemicals include: nerve growth factor, testosterone, estrogen, dopamine, norepinephrine, serotonin, oxytocin, and vasopressin. Adequate brain levels of testosterone seem important for both human male and female sexual behavior. Dopamine, norepinephrine, and serotonin are more commonly found during the attraction phase of a relationship. Oxytocin and vasopressin seemed to be more closely linked to long term bonding and relationships characterized by strong attachments.<br />
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The conventional view in biology is that there are two major drives in love — sexual attraction and attachment. Attachment between adults is presumed to work on the same principles that lead an infant to become attached to his or her mother or father– or both.<br />
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The chemicals triggered that are responsible for passionate love and long-term attachment love seem to be more particular to the activities in which both persons participate rather than to the nature of the specific people involved.<br />
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Anthropologist Helen Fisher also adds lust to the experience of love. Lust exposes people to others, and is the initial passionate sexual desire that promotes mating, and involves the increased release of chemicals such as testosterone and estrogen. These effects rarely last more than a few weeks or months.<br />
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In A General Theory of Love, three professors of psychiatry from UCSF provide an overview of the scientific theories and findings relating to the role of the limbic system in love, attachment and social bonding. They advance the hypothesis that our nervous systems are not self-contained, but rather demonstrably attuned to those around us and those with whom we are most close. This empathy, which they call limbic resonance, is a capacity which we share, along with the anatomical characteristics of the limbic areas of the brain, with all other mammals. Their work builds on previous studies of the importance of physical contact and affection in social and cognitive development, such as the experiments conducted by Harry Harlow on rhesus monkeys, which first established the biological consequences of isolation.<br />
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Brain scanning techniques such as magnetic resonance imaging have been used to investigate brain regions that seem to be involved in producing the human experience of love. Yeah, the important thing is your brain...<br />
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<span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-style: italic;">Other sites you may want to see:</span></span><br />
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WWE: <a href="http://visa-wwe.blogspot.com/">http://visa-wwe.blogspot.com/</a><br />
The Kingdom of Wonder:<a href="http://welcome2cambodia.blogspot.com/"> http://welcome2cambodia.blogspot.com/</a><br />
Daily Blogging: <a href="http://visablogging.blogspot.com/">http://visablogging.blogspot.com/</a><br />
Love Sharing: <a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/">http://visa-love.blogspot.com/</a><br />
NetworkSecurity: <a href="http://networksecuritynotes.blogspot.com/">http://networksecuritynotes.blogspot.com/</a><br />
About Insurance:<a href="http://visa-insurance.blogspot.com/">http://visa-insurance.blogspot.com</a><br />
All about Love: <a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/">http://visa-love.blogspot.com/</a><br />
Learning English Online: <a href="http://visa-elb.blogspot.com/">http://visa-elb.blogspot.com/</a><br />
Discovery Internet: <a href="http://visa-isp.blogspot.com/">http://visa-isp.blogspot.com/</a>visalittleboyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16906526424565765159noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-773860588210678628.post-32841411426696287632012-03-03T01:36:00.001-08:002012-04-21T03:39:53.582-07:00All About Love: Is It Good To Have Love During Study?<u><b>All About Love: Is It Good To Have Love During Study?</b></u> <br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"><img border="0" height="227" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhF_XbEYhqxKXlbFZNeOXlRJOXIfcjhZ8vdQL73OGLnp4sULQYqeLqvakCU3SBjsjYFshjtFZWgw2n-3UNOsYR4Yg2g_rHxf_7IkILC6LEUQYZweKlvhh7s-EEQntdYR3mLXf9aYiCDPi4/s320/All-About-Love-Visa-Love-Blog-Logo.bmp" width="320" /></a> </div><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Visa-Love: All About Love</a></div><br />
<b>Is It Good To Have Love During Study? </b>For me, I think that It's not good. How about you? <br />
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Not good, when you have bad love, not good when you have crazy love, not good when you have broken love...so not good...when you have love during study, our brain think both study and love, so your brain become separate, not as strong as when we have only one thinking to study...So, finally, I recommend all you are studying at any grade, do not have love during study...This is my thought...It's upon you if you think it's good to have it during study...thanks...<br />
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<span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-style: italic;">Other sites you may want to see:</span></span><br />
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WWE: <a href="http://visa-wwe.blogspot.com/">http://visa-wwe.blogspot.com/</a><br />
The Kingdom of Wonder:<a href="http://welcome2cambodia.blogspot.com/"> http://welcome2cambodia.blogspot.com/</a><br />
Daily Blogging: <a href="http://visablogging.blogspot.com/">http://visablogging.blogspot.com/</a><br />
Love Sharing: <a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/">http://visa-love.blogspot.com/</a><br />
NetworkSecurity: <a href="http://networksecuritynotes.blogspot.com/">http://networksecuritynotes.blogspot.com/</a><br />
About Insurance:<a href="http://visa-insurance.blogspot.com/">http://visa-insurance.blogspot.com</a><br />
All about Love: <a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/">http://visa-love.blogspot.com/</a><br />
Learning English Online: <a href="http://visa-elb.blogspot.com/">http://visa-elb.blogspot.com/</a><br />
Discovery Internet: <a href="http://visa-isp.blogspot.com/">http://visa-isp.blogspot.com/</a>visalittleboyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16906526424565765159noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-773860588210678628.post-33289146462041019072012-02-25T21:37:00.003-08:002012-03-25T05:09:04.322-07:00All About Love: Do You Know Storge Love?<b>All About Love: Do You Know Storge Love?</b><br />
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This post I would like to share with you a kind of love, the storge love.<br />
What is the storge love???<br />
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Storge, also called familial love, is the Greek word for natural affection—such as the love of a parent toward a child, "cherishing one's kindred, especially parents or children". In social psychology, storge is the form of love between friends.<br />
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Storge may be used as a general term to describe the love between exceptional friends, and the desire for them to care compassionately for one another.<br />
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Another interpretation is for storge to be used to describe a sexual relationship between two people that gradually grew out of a friendship—storgic lovers sometimes cannot pinpoint the moment that friendship turned to love. Storgic lovers are friends first, and the friendship can endure even beyond the breakup of the sexual relationship. They want their significant others to also be their best friends, and will choose their mates based on homogamy.<br />
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Storgic lovers place much importance on commitment, and find that their motivation to avoid committing infidelity is to preserve the trust between the two partners. Children and marriage are seen as legitimate forms of their bond, while sex is of lesser importance than in other love styles.<br />
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Advantages of storgic love may be the level of friendship, understanding, and intimacy that the partners share, while disadvantages may include a lack of passion and potential boredom in the relationship.<br />
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So, let's start storge love first...<br />
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Did you use to have love? Does you love always get success? Did you used to have broken heart? If you don't know what the broken heart is, let read the description below...<br />
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A broken heart (or heartbreak) is a common metaphor used to describe the intense emotional pain or suffering one feels after losing a loved one, whether through death, divorce, breakup, physical separation, or romantic rejection.<br />
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Heartbreak is usually associated with losing a family member or spouse, though losing a parent, child, pet, lover or close friend can all "breaks one's heart", and it is frequently experienced during grief and bereavement. The phrase refers to the physical pain one may feel in the chest as a result of the loss, although it also by extension includes the emotional trauma of loss even where it is not experienced as somatic pain. Although "heartbreak" ordinarily does not imply any physical defect in the heart, there is a condition known as "broken heart syndrome" or Takotsubo cardiomyopathy, where a traumatising incident triggers the brain to distribute chemicals that weaken heart tissue.<br />
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In philosophical views, many people having a broken heart is something that may not be recognized at first, as it takes time for an emotional or physical loss to be fully acknowledged. As Jeffrey Moussaieff Masson states:<br />
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<blockquote>Human beings are not always aware of what they are feeling. Like animals, they may not be able to put their feelings into words. This does not mean they have no feelings. Sigmund Freud once speculated that a man could be in love with a woman for six years and not know it until many years later. Such a man, with all the goodwill in the world, could not have verbalized what he did not know. He had the feelings, but he did not know about them. It may sound like a paradox — paradoxical because when we think of a feeling, we think of something that we are consciously aware of feeling. As Freud put it in his 1915 article The Unconscious: "It is surely of the essence of an emotion that we should be aware of it. Yet it is beyond question that we can 'have' feelings that we do not know about."</blockquote><b><br />
Broken heart syndrome</b><br />
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In many legends and fictional tales, characters die after suffering a devastating loss. But even in reality people die from what appears to be a broken heart. Broken heart syndrome is commonly blamed for the death of a person whose spouse is already deceased, but the cause is not always so clear-cut. The condition can be triggered by sudden emotional stress caused by a traumatic breakup or the death of a loved one. Broken heart syndrome is clinically different from a heart attack because the patients have few risk factors for heart disease and were previously healthy prior to the heart muscles weakening. The recovery rates for those suffering from "broken heart syndrome" are faster than those who had heart attacks and complete recovery to the heart is achieved within two weeks.<br />
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<b>Psychological and neurological understanding</b><br />
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A study has shown that a broken heart hurts in the same way as pangs of intense physical pain. The research demonstrated that the same regions of the brain that become active in response to painful sensory experiences are activated during intense experiences of social rejection, or social loss generally. "These results give new meaning to the idea that social rejection 'hurts'," said University of Michigan social psychologist Ethan Kross, lead author of the article. The Michigan research implicates the secondary somatosensory cortex and the dorsal posterior insula.<br />
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The psychologist and writer Dorothy Rowe recounts that she thought of heartbreak as an empty cliché until she experienced it herself as an adult. Heartbreak can sometimes lead people to seek medical help for the physical symptom, and may then be related to a somatoform disorder.<br />
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The neurological process involved in the perception of heartache is not known, but is thought to involve the anterior cingulate cortex of the brain, which during stress may overstimulate to vagus nerve causing pain, nausea or muscle tightness in the chest.<br />
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So, as you know about broken heart, let try to avoid it by being prepared before love...<br />
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<span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-style: italic;">Other sites you may want to see:</span></span><br />
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The Kingdom of Wonder:<a href="http://welcome2cambodia.blogspot.com/"> http://welcome2cambodia.blogspot.com/</a><br />
Daily Blogging: <a href="http://visablogging.blogspot.com/">http://visablogging.blogspot.com/</a><br />
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All about Love: <a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/">http://visa-love.blogspot.com/</a><br />
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This post I would like to share with you a love story or love experience that my friend used to tell me. He told me: "I Miss My High School Girlfriend".<br />
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Well, as we already knew, people in this world are living in different places, having different life story. Love is also a life story that people can not escape. Everyone always meet love when they are in the age of romantic feeling of being in love. Below is my friend's love story... <br />
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My friend's love story was written as below...<br />
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During my high school grade 12, I loved a girl. She studied with me in the same class. At the first beginning of meeting each other, we were just a normal friend. She was a smart student. For me, I was not smart like her. I knew her by asking her an exercise. The first day for me was very very difficult decision to ask her the exercise, because I am a man. I was a little shy to ask her. But for my knowledge I did not think anything beside earning knowledge. We are more closer and closer to each other everyday. When did we know that we were in love? Yeah, during vacation, every student went to visit their family in different villages. I and her were in different village. So, at the time of vacation, we were not near each other. That time was the time that I missed her, missed every activities we had been together. I knew myself that I was starting loving her. After the school vacation finished, we back to school. I asked her face to face, did you love me? She answered:"YES". I was very very happy to hear this word. <br />
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Time had changed everything....After we finished high school. She back to her home village. Her mother asked her to stop continue studying to university. Her mother also asked her to marry a rich man. She followed her mother and marry the rich man. For me, after I finished my high school, I am studying at a university. So, my girlfriend and I could not be near each other as we had been in high school.<br />
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But everyday, I still miss her,although she was married..."<br />
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Poor my friend, I always tell him that this is fate, dude. Do not miss her more. Just keep your love story as your bad dream...<br />
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Yeah, this is love! Be prepare before you love someone. Be prepare to drop tears. Be prepare to get hurt. Be prepare to get married. Be prepare for everything to have a successful love. Be responsible to love...<br />
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If you want to share you love story anonymously, we are happy to read your comments below...Thanks...<br />
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<span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-style: italic;">Other sites you may want to see:</span></span><br />
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<b>Finding love in the year of the dragon</b><br />
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The rabbit’s out and the dragon’s in: get ready for one of Asia’s biggest cross-cultural celebrations, nearly 5,000 years old, the Chinese New Year. In Cambodia, we’ll be able to enjoy January 23 to 25 off from work or school as official holidays to soak in the Chinese spirit and welcome the long-awaited year of the dragon.<br />
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The Chinese believe that among the 12 zodiac animals, the dragon is the strongest.<br />
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“Each year is special and unique,” said Chea Gech Sang, a nun at Thean In Mi Leak monastery.<br />
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“However, the year of the dragon seems to be more special because the Chinese value dragons more than the other [zodiac animals]. They regard dragons as the most powerful creature, so the year of the dragon is often prioritised.”<br />
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And the more powerful the zodiac animal is, the more careful you have to be, the Chinese believe. That’s why in Chinese tradition, those born under the year of the dragon will try anything to avoid dating someone with a mismatching zodiac sign.<br />
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Cambodian-Chinese Kuong Eng, a Chinese teacher, clarified that those born under the dragon will mismatch with those born under the dog, the ox, and the rabbit. If a dragon and someone born under a mismatching year get together, they cannot get married during the year of the dragon or they will bring bad fortune.<br />
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In addition, since this year is the year of the dragon, many women are eager to have a ‘dragon baby’ and start a new family. <br />
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Keo Samphors, 25, a company employee in Phnom Penh, is also Cambodian-Chinese. She’s been married for two months.<br />
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“I don’t really want a baby, but soon it’ll be the year of the dragon – which is great for having a first child,” she said.<br />
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“Also, the fortune teller guaranteed me that my family will have good luck and success if I have a child this year. So, I’m committed to giving birth.”<br />
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The first day of the Chinese New Year is the day of abstinence – so there probably won’t be much baby-making until the day after. On this day, those celebrating rarely leave home. Dessert is offered to the spirits for a sweet and cool year, and red envelopes (Ang Peov) are handed out with money for good luck.<br />
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On the second and third days, it is customary to visit relatives’ homes. On these days, it is strictly prohibited to argue or act negatively towards your family – this will bring bad luck for the rest of the year.<br />
Unlike here in Cambodia, China gets fifteen days for their New Year holiday.<br />
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LIFT wishes you all the best for your holiday and we hope you enjoy your time with family and friends. Happy year of the dragon! <br />
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<i>Source: Phnompenhpost</i><br />
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<span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-style: italic;">Other sites you may want to see:</span></span><br />
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The Kingdom of Wonder:<a href="http://welcome2cambodia.blogspot.com/"> http://welcome2cambodia.blogspot.com/</a><br />
Daily Blogging: <a href="http://visablogging.blogspot.com/">http://visablogging.blogspot.com/</a><br />
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About Insurance:<a href="http://visa-insurance.blogspot.com/">http://visa-insurance.blogspot.com</a><br />
All about Love: <a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/">http://visa-love.blogspot.com/</a><br />
Learning English Online: <a href="http://visa-elb.blogspot.com/">http://visa-elb.blogspot.com/</a><br />
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As my previous post in the past about <a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/2009/12/what-is-love.html">Love</a>, now let me remind you again, Love is...<br />
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<b>What is Love?</b> <br />
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Love is an emotion of strong affection and personal attachment. Love is also a virtue representing all of human kindness, compassion, and affection; and "the unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another". <br />
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Love is central to many religions, as in the Christian phrase, "God is love" or Agape in the Canonical gospels. Love may also be described as actions towards others (or oneself) based on compassion, or as actions towards others based on affection. In English, love refers to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from pleasure ("I loved that meal") to interpersonal attraction ("I love my partner"). "Love" may refer specifically to the passionate desire and intimacy of romantic love, to the sexual love of eros, to the emotional closeness of familial love, or the platonic love that defines friendship, to the profound oneness or devotion of religious love. This diversity of uses and meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, even compared to other emotional states.<br />
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And now, <b>Do You Know The Platonic Love?</b><br />
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Platonic love is a chaste and strong type of love that is non-sexual. And then, how about the Chastity is? Chastity refers to the sexual behavior of a man or woman acceptable to the moral standards and guidelines of a culture, civilization, or religion. In the western world, the term has become closely associated (and is often used interchangeably) with sexual abstinence, especially before marriage. However, the term remains applicable to persons in all states, single or married, clerical or lay, and has implications beyond sexual temperance. The words "chaste" and "chastity" stem from the Latin adjective castus meaning "pure". The words entered the English language around the middle of the 13th century; at that time they meant slightly different things. "Chaste" meant "virtuous or pure from unlawful sexual intercourse" (referring to extramarital sex), while "chastity" meant "virginity". It was not until the late 16th century that the two words came to have the same basic meaning as a related adjective and noun.<br />
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Now back to more details about the Platonic Love...The Platonic Love can be called Amor Platonicus(in French). The term amor platonicus was coined as early as the 15th century by the Florentine scholar Marsilio Ficino. Platonic love in this original sense of the term is examined in Plato's dialogue the Symposium, which has as its topic the subject of love or Eros generally. It explains the possibilities of how the feeling of love began, and how it has evolved - both sexually and non-sexually. Of particular importance are the ideas attributed to the prophetess Diotima, which present love as a means of ascent to contemplation of the divine. For Diotima, and for Plato generally, the most correct use of love of other human beings is to direct one's mind to love of divinity. In short, with genuine platonic love, the beautiful or lovely other person inspires the mind and the soul and directs one's attention to spiritual things. It was thought that Greek male and boy lovers were one of the noblest examples of this type of spiritual love. For it is a true love if you love a male because you love them for spiritual reasons, loving women was seen as only for sexual greed. One proceeds from recognition of the beauty of another to appreciation of beauty as it exists apart from any individual, to consideration of divinity, the source of beauty, to love of divinity.<br />
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The English term dates back as far as Sir William Davenant's Platonic Lovers (1636). It is derived from the concept in Plato's Symposium of the love of the idea of good which lies at the root of all virtue and truth. For a brief period, Platonic love was a fashionable subject at the English royal court, especially in the circle around Queen Henrietta Maria, the wife of King Charles I. Platonic love was the theme of some of the courtly masques performed in the Caroline era—though the fashion soon waned under pressures of social and political change. Barbara Graziosi, professor of Classics at Durham University, described Platonic love as the "Christian apology" of Greek love.<br />
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<b>Watch out the videos about the Platonic Love..</b><br />
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1. The first video, a man explains you about the platonic love..<br />
In the Symposium Plato gives an account of the origins of love and desire which traces it to a mythic division at the heart of our selves. We come into the world as divided beings and spend our lives searching for our other halves, and the pangs of love are the feelings of this search and the joy of its ending. Maybe an alternative version of this story would find us, not separate from one other person, but separate from the world inself. We are here, thrown into the world and obliged to find our way in it without having a clue what the reason might be or where the controls are, or what the rules of the road demand of us.<br />
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2. The second video entertains you with a song of platonic love..let enjoy...<br />
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<span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-style: italic;">Other sites you may want to see:</span></span><br />
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WWE: <a href="http://visa-wwe.blogspot.com/">http://visa-wwe.blogspot.com/</a><br />
The Kingdom of Wonder:<a href="http://welcome2cambodia.blogspot.com/"> http://welcome2cambodia.blogspot.com/</a><br />
Daily Blogging: <a href="http://visablogging.blogspot.com/">http://visablogging.blogspot.com/</a><br />
Love Sharing: <a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/">http://visa-love.blogspot.com/</a><br />
NetworkSecurity: <a href="http://networksecuritynotes.blogspot.com/">http://networksecuritynotes.blogspot.com/</a><br />
About Insurance:<a href="http://visa-insurance.blogspot.com/">http://visa-insurance.blogspot.com</a><br />
All about Love: <a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/">http://visa-love.blogspot.com/</a><br />
Learning English Online: <a href="http://visa-elb.blogspot.com/">http://visa-elb.blogspot.com/</a><br />
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This is the word usually mentioned by people who used to have love, failure with love, used to have more than one love or the people who scare with love because of they have ever had an unsuccessful love that make their heart broken...<br />
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So,The sentence: "The More You Love The More You Hurt" is right when you don't know the way to love. You don't know to love, just love but now care the first love you have...<br />
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<b>Be careful to love someone at the first time!!!</b><br />
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<span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-style: italic;">Other sites you may want to see:</span></span><br />
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WWE: <a href="http://visa-wwe.blogspot.com/">http://visa-wwe.blogspot.com/</a><br />
The Kingdom of Wonder:<a href="http://welcome2cambodia.blogspot.com/"> http://welcome2cambodia.blogspot.com/</a><br />
Daily Blogging: <a href="http://visablogging.blogspot.com/">http://visablogging.blogspot.com/</a><br />
Love Sharing: <a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/">http://visa-love.blogspot.com/</a><br />
NetworkSecurity: <a href="http://networksecuritynotes.blogspot.com/">http://networksecuritynotes.blogspot.com/</a><br />
About Insurance:<a href="http://visa-insurance.blogspot.com/">http://visa-insurance.blogspot.com</a><br />
All about Love: <a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/">http://visa-love.blogspot.com/</a><br />
Learning English Online: <a href="http://visa-elb.blogspot.com/">http://visa-elb.blogspot.com/</a><br />
Discovery Internet: <a href="http://visa-isp.blogspot.com/">http://visa-isp.blogspot.com/</a>visalittleboyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16906526424565765159noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-773860588210678628.post-82100226958096016862011-12-21T23:20:00.000-08:002012-01-12T20:38:58.691-08:00All About Love: Happy Birthday To You My Honey!<span style="font-weight:bold;">All About Love: Happy Birthday Honey!</span><br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 512px; height: 189px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgWFmbeTp43hRbkBfPi8PmKjd-j_S3TgukUzBvl5xAjliapocNpzeYkSNVdPGf_F_yvCp3BE46snFuwOz7mumq6IR2a7Yxx5XwLI5GZOlGoEKOLWhwwVqU4M-cRSYyZrbPW3himmUNryd8/s320/800px-Birthday_candles.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5688861280983707474" border="0" /></a><a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/">Happy Birthday</a><br />
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</div>A birthday is a day or anniversary where a person celebrates his or her date of birth. Birthdays are celebrated in numerous cultures, often with a gift, party or rite of passage. Although the major religions celebrate the birth of their founders (e.g., Buddha's Birthday), Christmas – which is celebrated widely by Christians and non-Christians alike – is the most prominent example. In contrast, certain religious groups, as is the case with Jehovah's Witnesses, express opposition to the very idea of celebrating birthdays.<br />
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So, most people consider that their birthdays are very important day in their life. For person you love. Do not forget to say "Happy Birthday to you my love" or "Happy Birthday to you my honey". After hearing this word, your beloved one will love you twice, I think. Moreover, if you have gift for his/her birthday, it's more wonderful and more attractive to your beloved.<br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 411px; height: 458px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEist5I0ME16fe7Q4Tmgt10HtjQdyAx-rgYb_s_9rGYlzsW20fqFwMYN3uhzRokruoP6I4JwpswLCBC_AQkUcGuLENqwbGJfAA3rnIT1ITIIwDRy7fULSlCk91MlCiv3-YhI91lUe_5SUAY/s320/Birthday+cake.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5688861272136650338" border="0" /></a><a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Happy Birthday Cakes</span></a><br />
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<span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-style: italic;">Other sites you may want to see:</span></span><br />
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WWE: <a href="http://visa-wwe.blogspot.com/">http://visa-wwe.blogspot.com/</a><br />
The Kingdom of Wonder:<a href="http://welcome2cambodia.blogspot.com/"> http://welcome2cambodia.blogspot.com/</a><br />
Daily Blogging: <a href="http://visablogging.blogspot.com/">http://visablogging.blogspot.com/</a><br />
Love Sharing: <a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/">http://visa-love.blogspot.com/</a><br />
NetworkSecurity: <a href="http://networksecuritynotes.blogspot.com/">http://networksecuritynotes.blogspot.com/</a><br />
About Insurance:<a href="http://visa-insurance.blogspot.com/">http://visa-insurance.blogspot.com</a><br />
All about Love: <a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/">http://visa-love.blogspot.com/</a><br />
Learning English Online: <a href="http://visa-elb.blogspot.com/">http://visa-elb.blogspot.com/</a><br />
Discovery Internet: <a href="http://visa-isp.blogspot.com/">http://visa-isp.blogspot.com/</a>visalittleboyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16906526424565765159noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-773860588210678628.post-91022860163431382392011-11-06T03:43:00.000-08:002011-12-22T00:10:07.142-08:00All About Love: About Romantic Love (Romance)<span style="font-weight: bold;">All About Love: About Romantic Love</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Romance </span>is the pleasurable feeling of excitement and mystery associated with love.<br /><br />In the context of romantic love relationships, romance usually implies an expression of one's love, or one's deep emotional desires to connect with another person.<br /><br />Historically, the term "romance" originates with the medieval ideal of chivalry as set out in its Romance literature.<br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 409px; height: 265px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgbOJ7oK8buCcG5uRQVUVnQFXprInwZb5C6ekvuhedsNgGVDbMLI_NOTq6exj_g1_ULjaC0uRsBQJx4J55fLg8S-g1f4FjDTvsJqrrDEnWUNY6tVVCX6ClYZ_brgh7DOT8lUOHnigAyTUQ/s320/visa-love-romantic+love.bmp" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5671856226037959314" border="0" /></a><a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/"><span style="font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">Visa-Love:</span><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"> Romantic Love</span></span></a><br /></div><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">General definitions</span><br /><br />1. The debate over an exact definition of love may be found in literature as well as in the works of psychologists, philosophers, biochemists and other professionals and specialists. Romantic love is a relative term, but generally accepted as a definition that distinguishes moments and situations within interpersonal relationships to an individual as contributing to a significant relationship connection.<br /><br />2. The addition of drama to relationships of love.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">In relationships</span><br /><br />During the initial stages of a romantic relationship, there is more often more emphasis on emotions—especially those of love, intimacy, compassion, appreciation, and affinity—rather than physical intimacy.<br /><br />Within an established relationship, romantic love can be defined as a freeing or optimizing of intimacy in a particularly luxurious manner (or the opposite as in the "natural"), or perhaps in greater spirituality, irony, or peril to the relationship.<br /><br /><br />In culture, arranged marriages and betrothals are customs that may conflict with romance due to the nature of the arrangement. It is possible, however, that romance and love can exist between the partners in an arranged marriage.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Popularization of love</span><br /><br />The concept of romantic love was popularized in Western culture by the game of courtly love. Troubadours in the Middle Ages engaged in trysts—usually extramarital—with women as a game created for fun rather than for marriage. Since at the time marriage was a formal arrangement, courtly love was a way for people to express the love typically not found in their marriage. In the context of courtly love, "lovers" did not refer necessarily to those engaging in sex, but rather in the act of emotional loving. These lovers had short trysts in secret that escalated mentally but never physically. Rules of the game were even codified. For example, De amore or The Art of Courtly Love, as it is known in English, was written in the 12th century. It lists such rules as "Marriage is no real excuse for not loving", "He who is not jealous cannot love", "No one can be bound by a double love", and "When made public love rarely endures".<br /><br />Some believe that romantic love evolved independently in multiple cultures. For example, in an article presented by Henry Grunebaum, he argues "therapists mistakenly believe that romantic love is a phenomenon unique to Western cultures and first expressed by the troubadours of the Middle Ages."<br /><br />The more current and Western traditional terminology meaning "court as lover" or the general idea of "romantic love" is believed to have originated in the late nineteenth and early twentieth centuries, primarily from that of the French culture. This idea is what has spurred the connection between the words "romantic" and "lover," thus coining English phrases for romantic love such as "loving like the Romans do." The precise origins of such a connection are unknown, however. Although the word "romance" or the equivalents thereof may not have the same connotation in other cultures, the general idea of "romantic love" appears to have crossed cultures and been accepted as a concept at one point in time or another.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Types of romantic love</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Romantic love</span> is contrasted with platonic love which in all usages precludes sexual relations, yet only in the modern usage does it take on a fully asexual sense, rather than the classical sense in which sexual drives are sublimated. Sublimation tends to be forgotten in casual thought about love aside from its emergence in psychoanalysis and Nietzsche.<br /><br />Unrequited love can be romantic in different ways: comic, tragic, or in the sense that sublimation itself is comparable to romance, where the spirituality of both art and egalitarian ideals is combined with strong character and emotions. Unrequited love is typical of the period of romanticism, but the term is distinct from any romance that might arise within it.<br /><br />Romantic love may also be classified according to two categories, "popular romance" and "divine or spiritual" romance:<br /><br /> * <span style="font-weight: bold;">Popular romance</span> may include but is not limited to the following types: idealistic, normal intense (such as the emotional aspect of "falling in love"), predictable as well as unpredictable, consuming (meaning consuming of time, energy and emotional withdrawals and bids), intense but out of control (such as the aspect of "falling out of love") material and commercial (such as societal gain mentioned in a later section of this article), physical and sexual, and finally grand and demonstrative.<br /><br /> * <span style="font-weight: bold;">Divine (or spiritual) romance</span> may include, but is not limited to these following types: realistic, as well as plausible unrealistic, optimistic as well as pessimistic (depending upon the particular beliefs held by each person within the relationship.), abiding (e.g. the theory that each person had a predetermined stance as an agent of choice; such as "choosing a husband" or "choosing a soul mate."), non-abiding (e.g. the theory that we do not choose our actions, and therefore our romantic love involvement has been drawn from sources outside of ourselves), predictable as well as unpredictable, self control (such as obedience and sacrifice within the context of the relationship) or lack thereof (such as disobedience within the context of the relationship), emotional and personal, soulful (in the theory that the mind, soul, and body, are one connected entity), intimate, and infinite (such as the idea that love itself or the love of a god or God's "unconditional" love is or could be everlasting).<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Let's enjoy a romantic love song: "I Love you more than you`ll ever know" </span><br /><iframe src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/3ws1V3Bl1r4" allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="315" width="420"></iframe><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-style: italic;">Other sites you may want to see:</span></span><br /><br />WWE: <a href="http://visa-wwe.blogspot.com/">http://visa-wwe.blogspot.com/</a><br />The Kingdom of Wonder:<a href="http://welcome2cambodia.blogspot.com/"> http://welcome2cambodia.blogspot.com/</a><br />Daily Blogging: <a href="http://visablogging.blogspot.com/">http://visablogging.blogspot.com/</a><br />Love Sharing: <a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/">http://visa-love.blogspot.com/</a><br />NetworkSecurity: <a href="http://networksecuritynotes.blogspot.com/">http://networksecuritynotes.blogspot.com/</a><br />About Insurance:<a href="http://visa-insurance.blogspot.com/">http://visa-insurance.blogspot.com</a><br />All about Love: <a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/">http://visa-love.blogspot.com/</a><br />Learning English Online: <a href="http://visa-elb.blogspot.com/">http://visa-elb.blogspot.com/</a><br />Discovery Internet: <a href="http://visa-isp.blogspot.com/">http://visa-isp.blogspot.com/</a>visalittleboyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16906526424565765159noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-773860588210678628.post-25891475665335682022011-09-01T19:32:00.000-07:002011-11-06T04:24:27.739-08:00All About Love: Love Marriage: What is Forced marriage?As I have posted about <a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/2011/07/all-about-love-love-marriage.html">Love Marriage</a> in my previous posts of this blog. And <a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/2011/07/all-about-love-love-marriage-what-is.html">Arranged Marriage</a> was already mentioned in the previous post as well. And about Forced marriage had also some introduce on the <a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/2011/07/all-about-love-love-marriage.html">Love Marriage</a> post as well. This post you will read more details about Forced Marriage...<br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 395px; height: 269px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj6KCKFfmjxb-qJqNPt_ipvSETLlMd8sL17puPzNXx93xUxQFnkfzCpyWn2ds-cyx555ZqTUkCQ0WCqr5yhmNaVJ9VKyw6iy-ADn_ctItJqqVeJcExwayWIGeT63pGy-dmp27aq2ZedYDk/s320/love-marriage-forced-marriage-visa-love-blog.bmp" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5647591438965109858" border="0" /></a><a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/"><span style="font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" ><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">Visa-Love: Love Marriage: Forced Marriage</span></span></a><br /></div><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Forced marriage</span> is a term used to describe a marriage in which one or both of the parties is married without his or her consent or against his or her will. A forced marriage differs from an arranged marriage, in which both parties consent to the assistance of their parents or a third party (such as a matchmaker) in identifying a spouse, although the difference between the two may be indistinct. The practice of forced marriage was quite common amongst the upper classes in Europe until the 20th century, and is still practiced in parts of South Asia, East Asia, the Middle East, and Africa. Forced marriages now in Western Europe and North America are generally committed within communities of immigrants from such areas. In most but not all forced marriages, it is the female (rather than the male) who is the involuntary spouse.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">What is Forced marriage?</span><br /><br />A marriage must be entered into with the full and free consent of both people. Everyone involved should feel that they have a choice.<br /><br />An arranged marriage is not the same as a forced marriage. In an arranged marriage, the families take a leading role in choosing the marriage partner.<br />The marriage is entered into freely by both people. However, in some cases, one or both people are ‘forced’ into a marriage that their families want.<br /><br />A forced marriage is a marriage conducted without the valid consent of both people, where pressure or abuse is used.<br /><br />You might be put under both physical pressure (when someone threatens to or actually does hurt you), or emotional pressure (for example, when someone makes you feel like you’re bringing shame on your family) to get married.<br /><br />In some cases people may be taken abroad without knowing that they are to be married. When they arrive in the country their passports may be taken by their family to try and stop them from returning home.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">FORCED marriage</span> is an abuse of human rights,<br />and a form of domestic violence and child abuse.<br /><br />The United Nations views forced marriage as a form of human rights abuse, since it violates the principle of the freedom and autonomy of individuals. The Roman Catholic Church deems forced marriage grounds for granting an annulment — for a marriage to be valid both parties must give their consent freely.<br /><br />In response to the problem of forced marriages among immigrants in the UK, the Forced Marriage (Civil Protection) Act 2007 was passed, which enables the victims of forced marriage to apply for court orders for their protection.<br /><br />Historically, forced marriage was used to require a captive (slave or prisoner of war) to integrate with the host community, and accept his or her fate. One example is the English blacksmith John R. Jewitt, who spent 3 years as a captive of the Nootka people on the Pacific Northwest Coast in 1802-1805. He was ordered to marry, because the council of chiefs thought that a wife and family would reconcile him to staying with his captors for life. Jewitt was given a choice between forced marriage for himself and capital punishment for both him and his "father" (a fellow captive). "Reduced to this sad extremity, with death on the one side, and matrimony on the other, I thought proper to choose what appeared to me the least of the two evils".<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">An Example of Forced Marriage:</span><br /><br />A <span style="font-weight: bold;">shotgun wedding</span> is a form of forced marriage occasioned by an unplanned pregnancy. Some religions and cultures consider it a moral imperative to marry in such a situation, based on reasoning that premarital sex is sinful. The phrase is an American colloquialism, though it is also used in other parts of the world.<br /><br />It is based on a hyperbolic scenario in which the pregnant female's father resorts to coercion (such as threatening with a shotgun) to ensure that the male partner who caused the female's pregnancy goes through with it, sometimes even following the man to the altar to prevent his escape. The use of violent coercion to marry is no longer legal in the United States, although many anecdotal stories and folk songs record instances of such intimidation in the 18th and 19th centuries. Purposes of the wedding include recourse from the male for the act of impregnation and to ensure that the child is raised by both parents as well as to ensure that the woman has material means of support. In some cases, a major objective was the restoring of social honor to the mother.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Shotgun weddings</span> have become less common as the stigma associated with out-of-wedlock births has gradually faded and the number of such births has increased; the increasing availability of birth control and abortion, as well as material support to unwed mothers such as welfare has also reduced the perceived need for such measures.<br /><br />In Japan, the slang term <span style="font-style: italic;">Dekichatta kekkon</span> (a marriage necessitated by an unplanned pregnancy) emerged in the late 1990s with a very similar meaning, although the etymology of the term in Japanese does not imply the same threat of physical violence that the English idiom "shotgun marriage" does. The term dekichatta kekkon can be loosely translated as an "oops marriage" or an "it's-already-happened-marriage". Namie Amuro is credited with beginning a trend of marrying and having children fairly young, at ages 19 or 20. The practice continued to be highly publicized and occurred throughout the late 1990s and first decade of the 21st century. Notable celebrities with shotgun marriages include Nozomi Tsuji and Anna Tsuchiya. Additionally, there is a trend of shotgun marriages among older Japanese for a variety of reasons, including: lack of motivation, limited education received, and socio-economical factors. Older examples include Leah Dizon and Miyavi.<br /><br />In China, the term (<span style="font-style: italic;">Pinyin: Fèngzǐchénghūn</span>) (literally, "Married by the child") means that the couple married because the woman conceived the child of the man outside of marriage. Similar to American shotgun marriages in parental pressure for the pair to marry, it is becoming increasingly popular for China's youngest generation. However, in the same age group, there is also objection and criticism to such a practice.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">A Forced marriage Makes a happiness couple family life?</span><br /><br />In my opinion, a couple after a forced marriage is very rarely get happiness, because they are forced at the beginning. For example, a girl has already has boyfriend, but her mother forced her to marry with other boy that she doesn't know before or she doesn't love. What in her mind think? How is she in a pressure to decide. If she accepts with her mother, what will happen if she is living with the boy that she doesn't love. They may often or daily have argument or fight each other. That's the problem...How the marriage begins with happiness???<br /><br />In United Kingdom, according to <a href="http://www.nottinghamshire.police.uk/">Nottinghamshire.police.uk</a> they have a FORCED MARRIAGE UNIT (FMU). If you or someone you know is being forced into marriage either in the UK or abroad, you can contact the FORCED MARRIAGE UNIT (FMU). The Forced Marriage Unit is there to help people who are being forced into marriage. The FMU’s caseworkers understand the issues, the family pressures and how difficult it is to talk about these situations.<br />The Forced Marriage Unit offers confidential support and information. You have a right to choose... and the Forced Marriage Unit is there to help you.<br /><br />You can:<br />Call (+44) (0)20 7008 0151 between 9am and 5pm<br />Monday to Friday<br /><br />Emergency Duty Officer (out of office hours)<br />(+44) (0)20 7008 1500<br />Or e-mail: fmu@fco.gov.uk<br />Find out more about the work of the Forced Marriage Unit at: www.fco.gov.uk/forcedmarriage<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">Forced Marriage Story in The UK:</span><br /><br /><blockquote><span style="font-weight:bold;">NARINA’S STORY</span><br /><br /><span style="font-style:italic;">“I felt that I had no option. Once they had taken me out of the country there was nothing I could do. I had no contact with anyone but the family. My mother was caught between my feelings and the community’s expectations. They made me feel that I would dishonour my family if I didn’t marry him.”<br /><br />Narina was 18 when her parents took her back home for a family holiday. She was kept in the family home and wasn’t allowed out on her own. Finally, she and her sister managed to run away and contacted the British Consulate, who found her a place to stay and helped her contact her friends in the UK. She eventually came home and with the help of a women’s refuge and her friends, has built a new life for herself and her sister.<br /></span></blockquote><br /><br /><blockquote><span style="font-weight:bold;">RAJ’S STORY:</span><br /><br /><span style="font-style:italic;">“People don’t realise that men can also find themselves in this situation. I don’t know if I could have told anyone even if I’d had the chance to. It’s not exactly macho, is it, admitting that you were held hostage by your family and forced to marry someone you’d never even met…”<br />Raj was forced into a marriage. When he’d finally returned to the UK, it took him 3 years to get out of it. He may have been able to avoid the financial and emotional turmoil of divorce if he had known about the support and help at hand.</span></blockquote><br /><br /><blockquote><span style="font-weight:bold;">SOLA’S STORY:</span><br /><br /><span style="font-style:italic;">“My parents took me back home, saying they wanted me to learn more about our culture and to experience life there. I had no idea they had marriage planned for me. If I had known I would have run away or found help earlier.”<br />Sola thought she was going overseas to find out more about her culture. However, when she arrived, her family told her that she had to get married. After the marriage she managed to come back to the UK with help from the British Consulate. She has been going to counselling to help her cope with depression and anxiety.</span><br /> </blockquote><br /><br /><blockquote><span style="font-weight:bold;">LENA’S STORY:</span><br /><br /><span style="font-style:italic;">“My father found out that I had a boyfriend and that changed everything in our family. He literally kept me prisoner in the house, wouldn’t let me see my friends and then started planning my wedding – to a man I had never met! He said that I had to follow our customs, and there would be no discussion. I didn’t have any other way out…”<br />When Lena’s father found out about her boyfriend, he was so angry that he cut off her hair. He told her that having a boyfriend was against their culture. She would have to marry the man he chose and have a virginity test. Lena was so scared that she took an overdose. Fortunately she recovered in hospital.</span><br /></blockquote><br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">A Video of Forced marriage - a woman's story </span><br /><blockquote><br />A woman who was forced to marry a man she barely knew to protect the honour of her family has spoken out about how she came through the experience to help others.<br /><br />The woman, who has asked not to be identified, was forced to marry a man she had met for only half an hour when her father threatened to kill her if she refused.<br /><br />After almost nine years in the loveless marriage, she made the brave decision to leave and re-build a life free from the control and emotional blackmail she had lived with from an early age.<br /><br />Now happily married to a man she loves, the woman is providing help and support to men and woman of all ages experiencing forced marriage and honour based violence.</blockquote><br /><br /><iframe width="640" height="390" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/pnRmkelgAjk" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-style: italic;">Other sites you may want to see:</span></span><br /><br />Entertainment on Flixya: <a href="http://visalittleboy.flixya.com/">http://visalittleboy.flixya.com/</a><br />WWE: <a href="http://visa-wwe.blogspot.com/">http://visa-wwe.blogspot.com/</a><br />The Kingdom of Wonder:<a href="http://welcome2cambodia.blogspot.com/"> http://welcome2cambodia.blogspot.com/</a><br />Daily Blogging: <a href="http://visablogging.blogspot.com/">http://visablogging.blogspot.com/</a><br />Love Sharing: <a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/">http://visa-love.blogspot.com/</a><br />NetworkSecurity: <a href="http://networksecuritynotes.blogspot.com/">http://networksecuritynotes.blogspot.com/</a><br />About Insurance:<a href="http://visa-insurance.blogspot.com/">http://visa-insurance.blogspot.com</a><br />All about Love: <a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/">http://visa-love.blogspot.com/</a><br />Learning English Online: <a href="http://visa-elb.blogspot.com/">http://visa-elb.blogspot.com/</a><br />Discovery Internet: <a href="http://visa-isp.blogspot.com/">http://visa-isp.blogspot.com/</a>visalittleboyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16906526424565765159noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-773860588210678628.post-74442142732078178972011-07-15T04:20:00.000-07:002011-07-15T04:54:07.312-07:00All About Love: Love Marriage: What is Arranged marriage?As I have posted about <a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/2011/07/all-about-love-love-marriage.html">Love Marriage</a> in my previous post of this blog. And <a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/2011/07/all-about-love-love-marriage.html">Arranged Marriage</a> was already mentioned in the previous post as well. This post you will read more details about Arranged Marriage...<br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 411px; height: 326px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjJcA3IBiHjZnqqReKaJdMIUkfDYkHDVRbzZES5MLTI_k1tdR9-IX2uoZDNsCLX0iGGALr7Z6wkiHkn0fDi2GEZr0Z0-JINFjRfct9-gqwZxOSLCY1-CkTHq54Enn5x8c6GuL0IUZVtjBg/s320/visa-love-marriage-love-arranged-marriage.bmp" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5629543878773586658" border="0" /></a><a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/"><span style="font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">ViSa-Love: Love Marriage: Arranged Marriage</span></span></a><br /></div><br />Once again, An <span style="font-weight: bold;">Arranged Marriage</span> is an practice in which one in which someone other than the couple getting married makes the selection of the persons to be wed, meanwhile curtailing or avoiding the process of courtship. Such marriages had deep roots in royal and aristocratic families around the world. Today, <span style="font-weight: bold;">arranged marriage</span> is largely practiced in South Asia (India, Pakistan, Bangladesh, Sri Lanka), Africa, the Middle East, and Southeast Asia and East Asia to some extent. Other groups that practice this custom include the Unification Church and Hasidic Jewry. It should not be confused with the practice of forced marriage, in which one person forces another to marry him or her. Arranged marriages are usually seen in Indian, traditional European and African cultures, especially among royalty, and are usually decided by the parents or an older family member. The match could be selected by parents, a matchmaking agent, matrimonial site, or a trusted third party. In many communities, priests or religious leaders as well as relatives or family friends play a major role in matchmaking.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Variations of Arranged marriages:</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Arranged marriages</span> vary in both nature and duration of time from meeting to engagement. In an "introduction only" arranged marriage, the parents may only introduce their son or daughter to a potential spouse. From that point on, it is up to the children to manage the relationship and make a choice. There is no set time period. This is common in the rural parts of North America, South America and especially in India and Pakistan. The same also appears in Japan. This type of arranged marriage is very common in Iran under the name of khastegary. This open-ended process takes considerably more courage on the part of the parents, as well as the prospective spouses, in comparison to a fixed time-limit arranged marriage. Men and women fear the stigma and emotional trauma of going through a courtship and then being rejected.<br /><br />In some cases, a prospective partner may be selected by the son or daughter instead of by the parents or by a matchmaker. In such cases, the parents will either disapprove of the match and forbid the marriage or approve the match and agree to proceed with the marriage. Such cases are distinct from a love marriage because courtship is curtailed or absent and the parents retain the prerogative to forbid the match.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">A culture of arranged marriage:</span><br /><br />In cultures where dating is not prevalent, arranged marriages perform a similar function—bringing together people who might otherwise not have met. In such cultures, arranged marriage is viewed as the norm and accepted by young adults.In several cultures, the last duty of a parent to his or her son or daughter is to see that he or she passes through the marital rites.<br /><br />In some cultures, arranged marriage is a tradition handed down through many generations. Parents who take their son or daughter's marriage into their own hands have themselves been married by the same process. Many parents, and children likewise, feel pressure from the community to conform, and in certain cultures a <a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/2011/07/all-about-love-love-marriage.html"><span style="font-weight: bold;">love marriage</span></a> or even courtship is considered a failure on the part of the parents to maintain control over their child.<br /><br />Proponents of arranged marriage often feel that people can quite easily be influenced by emotional infatuation to make a logical choice. In these societies, the intragenerational relationship of the family is much more valued than the marital relationship. The whole purpose of the marriage is to have a family. Even if the couple does not love each other at first, a greater understanding between the two would develop, aided by their often similar socioeconomic, religious, political, and cultural backgrounds. Proponents may also feel that marriages simply based on romance are doomed to failure due to the partners having unreasonable expectations of each other and with the relationship having little room for improvement.<br /><br />Furthermore, supporters of arranged marriages believe that parents can be trusted to make a match that is in the best interests of their children. They hold that parents have much practical experience to draw from and not be misguided by emotions and hormones. Opponents will note that there are times when the choosers select a match that serves their interests or the family's interests and not necessarily to the couple’s pleasure and find this naturally unacceptable. However, the community and even the children may see this as an acceptable risk with potential benefits.<br /><br />In these societies, the intragenerational relationship of the family is much more valued than the marital relationship. The whole purpose of the marriage is to have a family. The stability and endurance of the family in the long run are more important than the sexual pleasures involved in marital relationships.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Factors considered in matchmaking:</span><br /><br />In Indian, some of the factors to be considered in some order of priority may be taken into account for the purpose of matchmaking:<br /><br /> * <span style="font-weight: bold;">Caste</span>: Usually,first preference is given to higher or same caste.<br /> * <span style="font-weight: bold;">Reputation</span> of the family and friends with power over that child<br /> * <span style="font-weight: bold;">Vocation</span>: For a groom, the profession of doctor, accountant, lawyer or engineer are traditionally valued as excellent spouse material. More recently, any profession commanding relatively high income is also given preference. Vocation is less important for a bride but it is not uncommon for two people of the same vocation to be matched. Some preferred vocations for a bride include the profession of teacher, doctor, or lawyer.<br /> * <span style="font-weight: bold;">Wealth</span>: Families holding substantial assets may prefer to marry to another wealthy family. Dowry is extremely important in Indian marriages although it has been banned officially.<br /> * <span style="font-weight: bold;">Religion</span>: The religious and spiritual beliefs can play a large role in finding a suitable spouse.<br /> * Pre-existing medical conditions<br /> * <span style="font-weight: bold;">Horoscope</span>: Numerology and the positions of stars at birth is often used in Indian culture to predict the success of a particular match. This is sometimes expressed as a percentage, for example, a 70% match. Horoscope becomes a determining factor if one of the partners is Mângalik (lit., negatively influenced by Mars).<br /> * <span style="font-weight: bold;">Diet</span>: Vegetarianism or omnivore<br /> * <span style="font-weight: bold;">Height</span>: Typically the groom should be taller than the bride.<br /> * <span style="font-weight: bold;">Age</span>: Typically the groom should be older than the bride.<br /> * <span style="font-weight: bold;">Other factors</span>: City of residence, education level, etc.<br /> * <span style="font-weight: bold;">Language</span>: Language also is deemed to be an important criteria. The groom and the bride should have the same First language.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Clan links:</span><br /><br />Among most Indian and Nepalese Hindus, the hereditary system of caste is an extremely important factor in arranged marriage. Arranged marriages, and parents, almost always require that the married persons should be of the same caste. Sometimes inter-caste marriage is one of the principal reasons of familial rejection or anger with the marriage. The proof can be seen by the numerous Indian marriage websites on the internet, most of which are by caste. Even within the caste, there is obligation, followed strictly by many communities, to marry (their son/daughter) outside the gotra (sub-caste or clan). It must however be noted that modern India, being a secular democracy, does not prohibit inter-caste or intra-gotra marriage (by the Hindu Marriage Act). Arranged marriages are less common in the Hindu diaspora outside South Asia, although they have undergone a revival in the United Kingdom among Indian immigrants.<br /><br />Many Indian families who consider the caste system an artificial excuse for social inequity have the opposite preference. They prefer to marry persons of differing caste and tend to avoid matches within the same caste. It is believed that intercaste marriages weaken the caste system and thus reduce social inequality caused by the caste stratification. Such families are also often open to marriages across national borders.<br /><br />Similar clan-based arranged marriages have been reported in Mexican communities and Amerindians, particularly among the Triqui, including immigrants in the United States. Likewise, Fundamentalist Latter Day Saint (FLDS) groups, not to be confused with the LDS Church (Mormons), in the United States also practice arranged marriages by FLDS religious affiliation.<br /><br />Arranged marriages are fairly common in the Muslim world, particularly Pakistan (the second most populous Muslim country), where rituals like Pait Likkhi involve marriage based on clan affiliations.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Arguments for and against arranged marriage:</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">For:</span><br /><br />There are several arguments in favour of arranged marriage. Some of the most popular are:<br /><br /> * Modern arranged marriages, in contrast to classical ones, are not based on proscriptions but on pragmatic considerations. Often, parents can contribute to the offspring's life by utilizing the benefits of experience to choose the right mate for him/her. The common misconception is that the concept of arranged marriages imply traditional male-female duties.<br /> * Statistics place the divorce rate for arranged marriages much lower than those in the United States, where marriages out of love are the norm. This stems partly on the fact that divorcing implies giving back dowry or it is condemned by society and family in general. Those considerations are irrelevant in other societies.<br /> * Allow individuals that may have hard time finding a mate such as socially inept, disabled and etc. to find a mate and get married.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Against:</span><br /><br />Amongst the arguments against arranged marriage, the most prominent are:<br /><br /> * Arranged marriage is as good or as bad as the people arranging it. A forced mismatch, based on the values important to the arranger may not be as important to the parties involved.<br /> * A further condemnation of the practice of arranging marriage for economic reasons comes from Edlund and Lagerlöf (2004) who argued that a love marriage is more effective for the promotion of accumulation of wealth and societal growth.<br /><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-style: italic;">Other sites you may want to see:</span></span><br /><br />Entertainment on Flixya: <a href="http://visalittleboy.flixya.com/">http://visalittleboy.flixya.com/</a><br />WWE: <a href="http://visa-wwe.blogspot.com/">http://visa-wwe.blogspot.com/</a><br />The Kingdom of Wonder:<a href="http://welcome2cambodia.blogspot.com/"> http://welcome2cambodia.blogspot.com/</a><br />Daily Blogging: <a href="http://visablogging.blogspot.com/">http://visablogging.blogspot.com/</a><br />Love Sharing: <a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/">http://visa-love.blogspot.com/</a><br />NetworkSecurity: <a href="http://networksecuritynotes.blogspot.com/">http://networksecuritynotes.blogspot.com/</a><br />About Insurance:<a href="http://visa-insurance.blogspot.com/">http://visa-insurance.blogspot.com</a><br />All about Love: <a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/">http://visa-love.blogspot.com/</a><br />Learning English Online: <a href="http://visa-elb.blogspot.com/">http://visa-elb.blogspot.com/</a><br />Discovery Internet: <a href="http://visa-isp.blogspot.com/">http://visa-isp.blogspot.com/</a>visalittleboyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16906526424565765159noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-773860588210678628.post-70266596522847969322011-07-07T03:13:00.000-07:002011-07-07T03:36:37.494-07:00All About Love: Love marriageA <span style="font-weight: bold;">love marriage</span> is a union of two individuals based upon mutual love, affection, commitment and attraction. While the term has little discrete meaning in the Western world, where most marriages are considered to be 'based in love,' the term has meaning elsewhere to indicate a concept of marriage which differs from the norms of arranged marriage and forced marriage.<br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 462px; height: 282px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjYBYEtInrktZOMMYjgOcP0du5cF0LDIOHeAW3P-pYFfISQygrOMwLg66meUNDIY1XKfUvullv1dFDsVh6G5LW5Z3vaN6dm7K3UWG_dB9pC06q00Y29PH9Q7JIKSImxhNk_kLhaaMxOU7A/s320/visa-love-marriage-love.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5626556805154610098" border="0" /></a><span style="font-family: arial;font-size:85%;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;">ViSa-Love: Love Marriage</span></span><br /></div><br />The term has found usage in South Asia and Middle-Eastern countries which have strong traditional arranged marriage systems —where the family of the woman, the man, or of both, arrange the marriage for the individuals.<br /><br />Depending on the culture, love marriages may be unpopular or frowned upon.<br /><br />What about <span style="font-weight: bold;">arranged marriage</span> and <span style="font-weight: bold;">forced marriage</span>? How are they different from each other?<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Arranged marriage</span><br /><br />An <span style="font-weight: bold;">arranged marriage</span> is an practice in which one in which someone other than the couple getting married makes the selection of the persons to be wed, meanwhile curtailing or avoiding the process of courtship. Such marriages had deep roots in royal and aristocratic families around the world. Today, arranged marriage is largely practiced in South Asia (India, Pakistan, Bangladesh, Sri Lanka), Africa, the Middle East, and Southeast Asia and East Asia to some extent. Other groups that practice this custom include the Unification Church and Hasidic Jewry. It should not be confused with the practice of forced marriage, in which one person forces another to marry him or her. Arranged marriages are usually seen in Indian, traditional European and African cultures, especially among royalty, and are usually decided by the parents or an older family member. The match could be selected by parents, a matchmaking agent, matrimonial site, or a trusted third party. In many communities, priests or religious leaders as well as relatives or family friends play a major role in matchmaking.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Forced marriage</span><br /><br />Forced marriage is a term used to describe a marriage in which one or both of the parties is married without his or her consent or against his or her will. A forced marriage differs from an arranged marriage, in which both parties consent to the assistance of their parents or a third party (such as a matchmaker) in identifying a spouse, although the difference between the two may be indistinct. The practice of forced marriage was quite common amongst the upper classes in Europe until the 20th century, and is still practiced in parts of South Asia, East Asia, the Middle East, and Africa. Forced marriages now in Western Europe and North America are generally committed within communities of immigrants from such areas. In most but not all forced marriages, it is the female (rather than the male) who is the involuntary spouse.<br /><br />Forced marriages are generally made because of family pride, the wishes of the parents, or social obligation. For example, according to Ruqaiyyah Waris Maqsood, many forced marriages in Britain within the British Pakistani community are aimed at providing British citizenship to a member of the family currently in Pakistan to whom the instigator of the forced marriage feels a sense of duty.<br /><br />The United Nations views forced marriage as a form of human rights abuse, since it violates the principle of the freedom and autonomy of individuals. The Roman Catholic Church deems forced marriage grounds for granting an annulment — for a marriage to be valid both parties must give their consent freely.<br /><br />In response to the problem of forced marriages among immigrants in the UK, the Forced Marriage (Civil Protection) Act 2007 was passed, which enables the victims of forced marriage to apply for court orders for their protection.<br /><br />Historically, forced marriage was used to require a captive (slave or prisoner of war) to integrate with the host community, and accept his or her fate. One example is the English blacksmith John R. Jewitt, who spent 3 years as a captive of the Nootka people on the Pacific Northwest Coast in 1802-1805. He was ordered to marry, because the council of chiefs thought that a wife and family would reconcile him to staying with his captors for life. Jewitt was given a choice between forced marriage for himself and capital punishment for both him and his "father" (a fellow captive). "Reduced to this sad extremity, with death on the one side, and matrimony on the other, I thought proper to choose what appeared to me the least of the two evils"<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">* Below is a funny video of Love Marriage, the Official Video:</span><br /><br /><iframe src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/TojTlYNNm9w" allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="390" width="480"></iframe><br /><br />It's really funny dance in India, I think...<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-style: italic;">Other sites you may want to see:</span></span><br /><br />Entertainment on Flixya: <a href="http://visalittleboy.flixya.com/">http://visalittleboy.flixya.com/</a><br />WWE: <a href="http://visa-wwe.blogspot.com/">http://visa-wwe.blogspot.com/</a><br />The Kingdom of Wonder:<a href="http://welcome2cambodia.blogspot.com/"> http://welcome2cambodia.blogspot.com/</a><br />Daily Blogging: <a href="http://visablogging.blogspot.com/">http://visablogging.blogspot.com/</a><br />Love Sharing: <a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/">http://visa-love.blogspot.com/</a><br />NetworkSecurity: <a href="http://networksecuritynotes.blogspot.com/">http://networksecuritynotes.blogspot.com/</a><br />About Insurance:<a href="http://visa-insurance.blogspot.com/">http://visa-insurance.blogspot.com</a><br />All about Love: <a href="http://visa-love.blogspot.com/">http://visa-love.blogspot.com/</a><br />Learning English Online: <a href="http://visa-elb.blogspot.com/">http://visa-elb.blogspot.com/</a><br />Discovery Internet: <a href="http://visa-isp.blogspot.com/">http://visa-isp.blogspot.com/</a>visalittleboyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16906526424565765159noreply@blogger.com1