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Do You Know The Keys to a Happy Marriage?
Well, before I have some ideas related to the keys to a happy marriage, I would like to remind you the marriage. What is marriage?
Marriage is a social union or legal contract between people that creates kinship. It is an institution in which interpersonal relationships, usually intimate and sexual, are acknowledged in a variety of ways, depending on the culture or subculture in which it is found. Such a union, often formalized via a wedding ceremony, may also be called matrimony.
People marry for many reasons, including one or more of the following: legal, social, emotional, economical, spiritual, and religious. These might include arranged marriages, family obligations, the legal establishment of a nuclear family unit, the legal protection of children and public declaration of commitment. The act of marriage usually creates normative or legal obligations between the individuals involved. In some societies these obligations also extend to certain family members of the married persons. In cultures that allow the dissolution of a marriage this is known as divorce.
Marriage is usually recognized by the state, a religious authority, or both. It is often viewed as a contract. Civil marriage is the legal concept of marriage as a governmental institution irrespective of religious affiliation, in accordance with marriage laws of the jurisdiction. If recognized by the state, by the religion(s) to which the parties belong or by society in general, the act of marriage changes the personal and social status of the individuals who enter into it.
If you are going to enter into a life after marriage, do you know the keys to a happiness?
Well, I just have few ideas regarding the question. To have a happy marriage or a happiness family after your marriage, it is depended on, i can say, the time before and after marriage. In this world, there are different couples getting matrimony in different ways as described in the what is marriage? Let me say in two sections, the first one is the time before marriage and the second one is the time after marriage.
Before marriage:
Some couples, before they get married, they even don't know each other clearly or they even never getting in touch with each other. When their families from both sides agree with each other for them to have matrimony, they got married as their families wish. A question should be asked: with the case of marriage, will the couple have a happiness in their family, because they get married even they never know each other before. On the other hand, they never know or they never study or learn each other heart, each other daily activity. Moreover, they never getting closed to each other as a couple life. And some couples, before they get married, they already know each other, they already learn from each other, they already study each other in getting involved each other as a happiness couple. They already know each other attitude, they already know each other feeling, and until they know each other family. So, let's compare between the two case of before getting married, which case is should be chosen to have a happy marriage? For me, not you, I will choose the second case as I should know my partner before getting to a marriage life.
After marriage:
Well, here are some keys to have a happiness family after you marriage even you choose the first or the second case above:
- Give your matrimony a price as a gold one. Your marriage is a very great time in your life to make you meet a wonderful husband or wife. Let work on your marriage! Be in mind that now you are already married, now you already have wife, have husband, everything is not like you are alone, a single one. More responsibilities should be taken care of...
- Keep in mind with the word forgiveness. No one is perfect! Each of every one in this word always make a mistake. In a family life, the couple should give each other forgiveness for their mistake and try to explain, try to solve in a peaceful way.
- Be clear together! When your partner make you feel regret or make you feel upset, let talk straight to your beloved one, why you do like this, give me the reason please, reason is the king to solve problem, please don't leave thing unsaid, you should remember this word. Today, you upset one thing, tomorrow have another thing upset, after tomorrow another one and so on..without clear with each other with the upset things, any day you are angry with each other, the volcano exactly will be exploded. Even family economic, how much the family pay per day, should be known, and discussed face to face with a peaceful way. So try to make thing clear together from day to day.
- Be sure to accept your partner. Even before your marriage you even never know each other, after marriage, you can take time to study from each other in order to accept each other to live with.
- Spend happy time with family. Working is working for getting money for your life, but don't forget to take time for relax with family. It's not good when you care too much with your business but don't care about a happy time with family. It's dangerous case. Feel like you are being far away from your family life. So, you should take time for relax or get a trip to a tourism place with your husband or wife once a week. For this time you can getting to know more from each other, make each other feel more closer and closer...
- You should make time for both husband and wife to complete each other ambitions and goals. Help to complete each other tasks, help to complete each other jobs, help to complete each other ambitions and goals would make your family have a good environment.
- You should keep in mind that happiness in family is depended on three main happiness: a happiness in mind, a happiness in physical health, and a happiness in sexual desire feeling. Don't be shy! You should talk and explain each other about those main things. Many couple getting divorced because of one of or those three things.
- When you have children. One more responsibility is a plus. You should know how to prepare everything for your new family member. How to manage your family when you have children...
- So be clear with each other, be assertive, be responsible, be honest, be self controllable..to be a love one in your family...
*** Please listen to the videos of three parts below to find out more about how to have a happy marriage. I use the word listen to the videos, coz the below videos are not clear to be watch, so please listen to have good new ideas from them...
Amazing Facts:Keys for a Happy Marriage part1:
Amazing Facts:Keys for a Happy Marriage part2:
Amazing Facts:Keys for a Happy Marriage part3:
All About Love for the new year would like to wish you have a successful happy love getting to have a happy marriage...May God Bless You in the whole new year!!!
Well, I'm not a doctor of love. I just share some ideas related to the topic. If you have other good ideas, please kindly share with me here, thanks!
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